Why I don't necessarily recommend hiding your anxiety, insecurity, or fear

A question for your weekend:

What would you gain if you let them see you accurately?

Katie Seaver, life coach, how to hide your anxiety from others, managing anxiety, managing triggers, what will others think of me, how do I make everyone like me

So many of us are holding up facades — facades that prevent the world from seeing our anxiety, our insecurity, our imposter-ness.


But what if you just... let other people see? I know it's a big ask, and perhaps one that is scary or complex to implement.


But the rewards are big, too. On a personal level, my coaching got a lot better when I decided to just let my clients see that sometimes I was nervous or unsure. In fact, I think I seemed a lot less nervous or unsure when I wasn't also trying to hide that from them.


And, perhaps even more importantly: it was so much less tiring. Holding up a facade takes an enormous amount of energy. You may have forgotten how much energy it takes if holding it up is your life-as-usual.


How much energy would you get back if you just let them see you accurately?

As always, I know you’ve got this.

Katie





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