A reminder for when it feels like other people are getting ahead of you in life

Here’s a reminder:

You’re allowed to go at your own pace.

And even: You may not have a choice, but to go at your own pace.

Other people may seem like they’re sailing through — making the smart decisions, getting the great opportunities, doing so well with their career and relationships and art and bodies. And that’s great.

But your journey may not be so linear, and it may not be so fast.

This is not to say that you shouldn’t try. This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t make changes when appropriate, do deep self-examination, and put in the work.

But it is to say that your pace may be different than theirs, and that’s allowed. And more than “allowed,” it may be inescapable. Inevitable.

Sure, we may not be grateful for the roadblocks and wrong turns and burdens that have slowed us down. But our pace is our pace.

How does it feel to at least stop fighting it?

I know you’ve got this.

Katie